People are going to believe what they want to believe, it’s that simple!
If they can’t see it then they don’t know you. Sometimes it is just a manipulation tactic to get you feeling guilty to get what they want from you. ~ Judith Long
People that do not like you will always find justification in their reasoning! A total waste of your time to try to change them!
Certain things will never go back to how they used to be 
It’s not about having time for others 
Not getting what you want in life 
Respect people who find time for you