No explanation is actually needed if there is no breach of UNDERSTANDING.
Now when I try to speak the truth from my perspective I am not believed. Now I’m told to just stop being defensive. So my choice is either ignore what is said to me that I find false or blindly agree like a puppet. ~ Kaylene Myers
Some people who flood others with their distasteful criticism 
Stop worrying about people that aren’t worried about you 
In the end, people will judge you anyway 
Never waste your time trying to explain to people