Experience is the best teacher & lessons.
It doesn’t make you strong to shut yourself off numb yourself. That’s a coping mechanism but it’s the sign of weakness, not strength. Strength comes in how you handle the pain.
Experience is the best teacher & the darkest time is the precious lesson. We can’t avoid or run away, just be tough, smart & optimistic.
You are in competition with no one 
Just Live your Life & Be Happy 
People will notice the change in your attitude 
Never chase love, affection or attention in your life