People are going to believe what they want to believe, it’s that simple!
If they can’t see it then they don’t know you. Sometimes it is just a manipulation tactic to get you feeling guilty to get what they want from you. ~ Judith Long
People that do not like you will always find justification in their reasoning! A total waste of your time to try to change them!
As you get older you will understand more about your life 
Negative comments from others are their own insecurities 
Give a portion of your life to someone 
Not getting what you want in life