To be able to stop that, requires maturity on your own very part and maturity comes with rising above and beyond those part of you that are subject to their control i.e mind, feelings and emotions. All of those are associated with body, flesh or carnal therefore, let your consciousness dwells not on your body but rather on your spiritual personality by so doing, you will be able to discern their hidden intentions before they let it loose on you. ~ Hakeem Abina
The only things that count are the things that happen in you 
Respect people’s feelings 
Don’t remove the wrong people in your life with anger 
Love to be in your own space