Anxiety and depression make it a big problem!
Change is a difficult process for some just as communicating is difficult. If you just complain expecting a different outcome, you will be stressed at being disappointed. Don’t be afraid to discuss (and sometimes argue) your ideas, but in the end, remember that the other human being is just as important as you are and deserves your respect.
Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness 
Be Patient! Things will change for the better 
A gentle tone can change the direction of a conversation 
People will notice the change in your attitude