Anxiety and depression make it a big problem!
Change is a difficult process for some just as communicating is difficult. If you just complain expecting a different outcome, you will be stressed at being disappointed. Don’t be afraid to discuss (and sometimes argue) your ideas, but in the end, remember that the other human being is just as important as you are and deserves your respect.
Stop focusing on how stressed you are 
Little chance you have in trying to change others 
Don’t worry about the things in you have no control over 
The Secret of Change