You have to compromise and be positive and not lash out and be controlling in a relationship!
The only person you can change is yourself!
Either you love them for who they are, or you don’t love them. It’s pathetic when people say they love someone, then try to change them. All you gotta do is be honest, with yourself and them, and then stop wasting both of your time. I love when people actually love. ~ Alicia Ruebens
Never force someone to make a space in their life for you 
Everyone can say I love you 
Never beg someone to be in your life 
The ones who love you will never leave you