When you are healed , it doesn’t mean that there was no hurt , failure , grief , disappointments etc in the past. These feelings do leave some marks within you. You have to face these feelings. If you don’t, they’ll simmer beneath the surface and make it harder for you to cope.
Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and they will come forth later in uglier ways. You have to feel them , learn your lessons and forget them. If you are healed , you won’t let your emotions overpower your intelligence. In reality, the strongest people are the ones who feel it, accept it, and learn and grow from it.Your feelings are a part of your experience. Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives. You have learnt to live with your emotions and you don’t let your emotions affect you while you make life choices.